Is there a G-spot?
The reality is - it isn’t really a “spot.” It is not all alone on its own, but a connected part of the clitoral pleasure network.
The G-spot area appears to be where the urethra, vagina and an internal portion of the clitoris come together. Likely, it is made up of spongy erectile tissue. This area only becomes distinguishable when a woman is aroused and the area is engorged with blood.
There is no magic “button”
Researchers continue to be mystified in attempting to find an actual spot. So, with that in mind try to set the goal of finding it aside and just relax and have fun experimenting. Figure out what brings you pleasure in your own body.
In a recent study on the topic by OMGYES, about 2/3 of women report that it attaches to the vaginal ceiling (the upper wall of the vagina). That would be roughly about 12 o’clock when a woman is lying on her back. It is about 2-3 inches into the vagina. What was interesting however, is that about 1/3 of women report that their G-spot is “on the left, right or bottom wall or the location ‘moves’ from day to day.”
Every woman experiences pleasure differently and all are NORMAL.
The degree of sexual sensation in this area varies widely from woman to woman and can also vary within the same woman. Factors such as arousal level, time of the month and season of life may come into play regarding the variance. So, for some women, this may be a real focal area of pleasure, for others, not so much.
If you are trying to find a G-spot area, most often it responds to massaging pressure that is persistent. It can be manually with fingers, or with penetration of a penis or a toy. When using finger(s), you’ll want to firmly but gently use a “come-hither” curl motion. Try not to focus on finding a spot but rather stimulate the whole erogenous zone inside the vagina. As you become aroused, you might feel a slight increase in firmness to the tissues as they engorge with blood. You also may want to press a finger or two up against this region and hold it there. This area is not as sensitive as the clitoral glans, so it can usually tolerate firm, persistent pressure.
Positions that seem to provide the best stimulation to the G-spot area with penetration are woman-on-top positions and rear-entry positions. Remember you are attempting to provide persistent stimulation to the upper wall of the vagina (or wherever you have found your region to be located). Orgasms with G-spot area stimulation may or may not result in ejaculate of some clear fluid from the glands that exist in the spongy tissue. This is normal whether it happens or doesn’t happen.
When you hear the term blended orgasm, more often than not this is referring to a combination of g-spot and clitoral stimulation. In other words, two pleasure points being stimulated at one time. Some women find using pleasure techniques with penetration a helpful way to stimulate G-spot regions.
More on this topic:
The Clitoris - it’s a whole network!
Orgasms - answering your questions
Pleasure techniques with penetration
Can women be multi-orgasmic?
What is edging?
Let’s Talk Orgasms
